How to remove your personal info from That’sThem

What is That’sThem?

That’sThem (thatsthem.com) is a people-search data broker. It aggregates personal information from county public records, voter registrations, court filings, property deeds, and social media, then publishes that data as searchable profiles accessible to anyone. A typical That’sThem profile includes your full name, current and past home addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, age, relatives, and in many cases your estimated net worth or property value.

This data is sold to background-check services, insurance underwriters, direct-mail marketers, and law firms. It is also used by stalkers, identity thieves, and scammers. Having your home address freely available on a site like That’sThem is a concrete safety risk, especially for domestic-violence survivors, law-enforcement officers, and public figures. Removal from That’sThem takes 14-30 days on average with no ID required.

What information does That’sThem have about you?

That’sThem compiles records from multiple public-record sources. A typical profile on thatsthem.com includes:

• Full legal name and known aliases
• Current and historical home addresses
• Phone numbers (cell and landline)
• Email addresses
• Age, date of birth, and gender
• Known relatives and household members
• Property records and estimated home value
• Possible criminal and court records

The breadth of this data makes people-search brokers the highest-priority removal targets for anyone concerned about physical safety, identity theft, or unwanted contact.

How to remove yourself from That’sThem, step by step

1. Find your listing. Go to thatsthem.com and search for your name. Note the exact URL of any profile that appears, you will need it in your removal request.
2. Locate their privacy contact. That’sThem processes removal requests via email request. The correct contact is their privacy or data-protection team, not general support.
3. Write your removal request. Cite the specific law that applies to you (CCPA §1798.105 if you are a California resident, GDPR Article 17 if you are in the EU/UK, or your state's equivalent). Name the data you want deleted and include the URL of your listing. Be explicit: "Please delete all personal data associated with my name from your databases and search results."
4. Send and document. Send the email, note the date, and keep a copy. Response rules depend on the law that applies to you: a covered, verifiable California request generally has a 45-day CCPA response period, while GDPR requests are generally handled within one month, subject to extensions and exceptions.
5. Follow up if needed. If you receive no response within the applicable legal period, send a follow-up citing the specific statute and keep your records. Escalation options vary by jurisdiction. The broker-stated or source-documented processing estimate listed for That’sThem is 14-30 days; it is not a guaranteed outcome.

ID requirement: No, you can submit the request without uploading an ID.

Will your data reappear on That’sThem?

Information can reappear if a broker receives a new public-record or partner-data update, but OfflistMe has not published a universal refresh interval or reappearance rate for That’sThem. A successful request is not proof that every copy was removed.

Keep the confirmation, periodically check important listings, and submit a new request if the profile returns. Where lawful and practical, review upstream public-record and address-confidentiality options. The difficulty label for That’sThem describes the documented opt-out path, not the probability of permanent removal.

Your legal rights against That’sThem

Multiple laws give consumers the right to demand deletion from That’sThem:

• CCPA / CPRA (California). A California resident may have a deletion right under §1798.105 when the business and request are covered. The generally applicable response period is 45 days, subject to verification, extensions, and exceptions.
• GDPR / UK GDPR. A covered person may invoke Article 17 where its requirements apply. The usual response period is one month, subject to lawful extensions and exceptions.
• Other state laws. State privacy rights, scope, exemptions, and response periods vary. Identify the law that applies to your situation instead of assuming that one state's rule applies nationwide.

You do not need to be a lawyer to make a clear request, but a request is not automatically valid or guaranteed to succeed. Check the broker's current privacy notice, send through the documented channel, and retain proof. The listed processing estimate (14-30 days) is source-documented and may change.

How OfflistMe helps with That’sThem removal

Finding the correct opt-out email address for That’sThem, and then repeating that process for the other 500+ brokers who may hold your data, takes hours of research. OfflistMe does that work upfront: it identifies the correct privacy contact for each broker, including That’sThem, and pre-generates a legally worded deletion request that you send directly from your own inbox, citing the correct privacy law for your jurisdiction.

The result is identical to doing it yourself. The request comes from your email address, goes directly to thatsthem.com, and the broker processes it exactly as they would a manual request. OfflistMe simply removes the research and writing overhead, so a process that would take an afternoon takes minutes instead.

There is no account, no ID upload to us, and no subscription. One payment covers generous request quotas across all 500+ brokers, including re-runs when data reappears months later on That’sThem or elsewhere.

Methodology: The That’sThem processing estimate (14-30 days) is broker-stated or source-documented and is not an independently measured outcome. The difficulty label (Hard (4/5)) reflects the documented opt-out method (Email request) and identity-verification fields where available; it is not a compliance rate or removal guarantee. This page should be rechecked when the broker changes its privacy process.